There are many ways I describe myself but ‘Mother of Three
Teenage Girls’ is generally not one I use in any type of company as I fear it
leads onlookers to look for signs of general wear and tear and a reliance upon
the bottle. However there are
occasions where I have to own up to one of my prime roles in life. You don’t have to be the voice of authority,
sorry I mean walking ATM, for a bunch of teen Drama Queens to be aware of the
types of female image that girls (and boys) are bombarded with. The media is full of women whose main
attributes are either their physical appearance or the possession of a relentless drive for
celebrity at all costs.
BBC Radio 4 Woman’s Hour is one of my regular listening
stops and I was so invigorated and inspired when I came across the programme’s
‘Woman’s Hour Power List’.
Using a mixture of listeners’ suggestions and a panel of
judges they have complied a list of who they judge to be the 100 most powerful
women in the UK. The Queen heads
the list, hard to argue with that one really in terms of power that can be
wielded, but after that it is a glorious medley of women from law, science,
medicine, the media, academia, business, forensic medicine, the police force,
fashion designers, IT entrepreneurs, basically every field of modern day
life. As ever I am sure there will
be arguments about who has been left out, or not considered, but even as it
stands I think it is a testament to the drive and ability of those women and I
found myself clicking on individual women’s names and marvelling at their
accomplishments. The photos
that accompany each woman’s name together with a snapshot biography portray a diverse
selection of woman whose common attributes are the intelligence, interest and
competence that shine out of their eyes rather than the state of their hair, faces and chests. There are undoubtedly those who combine model type looks with achievement and there is a fair scattering of the glamour puss brigade for it has to be said
Victoria Beckham and Stella McCartney are on the list, but how nice to see them
celebrated for achievements rather than fame, notoriety or as part of a couple.
I wish ‘Woman’s Hour’ would produce a poster, complete with
photos of their Top 100 as I would be ordering numerous copies and sticking it
anywhere a teenage girl’s eye might light. So let’s toss out ‘Hello’, apart from obviously at the
hairdressers where it’s required reading, and try to make sure that for our
daughters that the phrase ‘naked ambition’ means hitting the right kind of list
rather than starring in a dodgy clip on the internet without your clothes on.
Hear hear. And you know for every one of those amazing Top 100 women who are recognised and acknowledged, there are a hundred others who are not recognised. And some of us know who you are...the DQs are very lucky to have such a top woman as their mother.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right on the unrecognised front - I know so many vibrant, interesting women who take on the world with panache - maybe we should have a global jamboree - sorry I mean conference - let's pick somewhere mid way between Sydney and Amsterdam!
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